34 years ago and 34 years later, we're still the same people that you know.
Celebrating our simple and private 34th Anniversary
(since 14 October, 1989)
Every year, I receive private messages from people inquiring about the secret to maintaining a long-lasting marriage
. It's quite challenging to give a definitive answer to this.
While we might have frequent disagreements and navigate through various challenges together—be it financial, personal, or any other issues you can think of—many believe that the key lies in the provision of support, both physical and spiritual (interpreted in any way you prefer). While I concur with this perspective, there's more than meets the eye.
Believe me, it's not primarily about finances (if money is the main concern, then it's time to seriously reassess your relationship).
It revolves around:
a) Enduring patience,
b) Active listening,
c) Mutual understanding,
d) Taking action.
e) Making sacrifices
f) Spending quality time with your family
Trying to assert dominance and feeding your ego will only lead to more harm.
Maintaining your dignity is distinct from inflating your ego.
Being modest differs from feeling inferior.
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